Wow, Im going to be talking about my crazy life ... all my ups and downs.
I have no idea where to start so i start with introducing myself so bear with me as my typing is awful.
I am a stay home with 6 wonderful children.
My oldest is valerie she is 13 and just started junior high but in high school that goes grade 7 to 12 but they have two groups junior high group and high school group.
she excited about school and so far likes it . Ive incouraged her to join school activities as to enjoy school and make new friends . It looks like ill have to stock up on bus tickets for her to take bus home after school if she joins something...
My second born name sara she 11 and she seems to be in a hurry to grow up though i tell her to slow down .I know she tries to be like her older sister . She was ten pound baby and hugh girl she is now taller than my oldest daughter by inch and half and almost as tall as I am not to mention big feet.... she is the most sentive girl but she can be pretty bold at time and speaks of her mind just like her mommy.....she in grade 6 and loves her teacher so far... i hope she continues to use her brains and be better than us in life .....she loves to dance as she takees tap and hip hop .Boy the dance is expensive as i have to pay for three dance class for my two girls ... val takes jazz on sats and sara takes tap and hip hop..
my third born is katrina she 9. She is the most difficult to handle . she has very short attention span and love to play rather than go to school and learn to use her brains. I feel bad for her as all her siblings pick on her the most and other family member either pitty her or say she got somthing wrong with her as she should understand things such as she should know not to steal but she denies or she takes things and says she doesnt. Somethings she does makes us wonder but I think she just thrives on attention and love which she doesnt get alot off ... its hard to give all the attention she needs so she seeks attention by lying that she has no lunch and she does ..... like i said she thrives on attention. Her best quality is her smiles and spunkiness she has for her personality and she does have good qualities as i always tell her . I take her out as mommy and me once a mth to do whatever she wants most often she done after two hours lol............... she wants to go home and play.
my fourth is my first son... his name is ethan .. he was something ill tell you . He was an adventerous child that didnt like to stay indoors and loves to travel all over meaning that he didnt like to stay in front of the house if you turned your back on him for a minute ,he was gone and he didnt just stop there. we had to lock every doors and windows in order to protect him from injury and really double up to watch him . when we all were outside.....
Now hes six years old and has a better understanding the rules not to take off and go too far as mommy and daddy dont want to lose you.... and be safe. Now its much easier with him though now i hear that he takes off to the park alone with his 9 year old sister which i didnt knw so he got punsihed for a week for doing that. He knows now that he has to ask and that it is not safe if mummy or daddy dont know where you are and something happens no one would ever know what happens to him so now he has a better understanding to that and will ask and his older sister will take him to park or us... He loves to ride his bike and play with the boys in the neighbourhood but i dont let him play with some other boys as they can be influence him or they are bullies to him he wont say no as he wants to be friends with every one ... hes very friendly with kids in neighbour hood and i like him to know right or wrong
my fifth is madsyee she four... and she got a stubborn streak in her from the time she was born and still to this day.. but she so cheerful and loves to make everyone smile.... beautiful. She will be starting school in few weeks .
my last one is my son cody . I had most difficult pregnancy with him with all the worries that he didnt have enough fluild in the uterus from the 14th weeks til i hit 35 weeks when doc said ok thats it for ultrasounds and keep eye on move ments and to let triage that i have low fluid... he arrived 37th week and he came out ok at first and then he had a partical lung collaspe so he had a difficult breeathing which scared the crap outta me and on top of it i had streap b positive so he had to be on antibotics too so he was nicu for three days and then they finally let him go home.. whew thank god for his health and heathy to come home but i was scared for a mth . but he was all smiles and very happy baby ,nevercomplains much and he now two .. full of spunk but sunshine ... as happy as clam...
Now about myself im 38 now and want to loose weight and be a better parent myself . its insane life right now with everything going on . We just put m husband mom in a nursiing home so she get fed reg and gets meds properly . Sh can leave anytime but she has to check out and check in .She dont like it because she dont have money as they take it all that she has and she feels like a child . And now we just found out his dad has cancer and has only 6 weeks left to live.. its sad to hear that news ...so we are spending as much as we can though we dont have a ccar but we had a visit with him and he was happy to see us but very upset that we didnt go up for a week as we always have ... only because everyone on his side of his family said not to go but he himself told paul that he wanted to have all of us to spend week up ... well whats done is done i tired to convince him to go but he was torn in two world.
well thats all for now and beware of my frustation and trimuphsin the future
